[:imposters of unconditional love:] • There are some qualities which appear to be unconditional love but are not • Shame, guilt, coercion, intimidation, peer pressure, ... • Approach these with curiosity, compassion, and love in order to transform them, both within yourself and within others • In the case of finding them within others, we may continue to radiate love to this person without addressing the imposter directly, unless the person is our student